When Competing Priorities Compete with the Customer
In my last post, I wrote about a customer service experience that has become increasingly common. A company moves customers into chatbots, automated workflows, and scripted support channels. From inside the company, the process may look efficient. From the customer’s side, it can feel like more time, less service, and mounting frustration.
In many organizations, competing demands emerge because each department is doing what it has been asked to do, while being evaluated against different success criteria:
Operations may be evaluated on capacity, volume, and speed.
Finance may be evaluated on cost, margin, and labor efficiency.
Technology may be evaluated on system performance, scalability, and workflow completion.
Legal or Risk may be evaluated on consistency, compliance, and limiting exceptions.
Customer Experience may be evaluated on satisfaction, trust, retention, and resolution.
It is easy to see how competing demands emerge since each department has distinctly different success criteria. Unfortunately, it is the customer who ends up feeling the impact of those competing demands.
How do you change this dynamic?
Many companies say they put the customer first, but for the reasons above, their internal measures often make that difficult in practice.
Different departmental goals naturally create competing priorities. Leaders can evaluate those priorities with this unifying question: Does this decision make the customer’s experience better or worse?
Operations still stives for efficiency, with attention to whether the process helps the customer get the issue resolved.
Finance still manages cost, with attention to whether the savings strengthen or weaken the customer relationship.
Technology still builds scalable systems, with the priority that those systems improve the customer experience.
Legal or Risk still protects the company, with attention to whether policy application preserves trust.
Customer Experience still owns its distinct role in understanding and improving the customer relationship, while helping the rest of the organization see how their decisions shape that experience.
This prioritization does not change the fact that resources are limited and tradeoffs still have to be made. Leaders must decide where time, money, people, and attention belong.
Instead of asking whether one department’s measure improved, the leadership team must ask what happened to the customer experience as a whole.
Did the process help the customer solve the problem?
Did it respect the customer’s time?
Did it preserve trust?
Did it strengthen the relationship?
Did it reflect what the company says it is there to do?
Maintaining focus on the customer experience helps leaders align competing priorities across the organization.
Is Your Automation Solving Your Customer's Problems, or Creating New Ones?
As a consumer, I feel a definite shift in service levels as more companies move customers into AI, automated workflows, and scripted support channels.
When faced with a problem, there are now many companies where the customer has no choice but to start with a chatbot, even when they already know the question is too nuanced for the chatbot to answer. The customer has to get to work and explain the issue in the chat. After two to four exchanges, the bot either confirms it cannot resolve the issue, or it keeps asking questions and repeating instructions that do not solve the problem.
The customer then has to figure out the right phrase to be connected to a person:
Speak with a person.
Speak with a live person.
Speak with a representative.
Speak with an agent.
Eventually, the right language unlocks the next step.
Then the human agent enters the conversation, and the customer starts over.
I have also noticed longer lags in the exchange of questions and answers with the “live person” . At first I thought the chat had ended. Then I realized the agent was likely handling several customers at the same time. What could have been solved in a five-minute phone call has now taken twenty minutes to reach an unsatisfactory conclusion.
From the customer's side, it looks like more work, more time, and less service.
Within the company, different parts of the organization may see that same interaction very differently. Depending on their vantage point, some departments may see it, and report it, as a win.
Operations may see improved efficiency. More customers are being handled with fewer people. Call volume has been reduced. Chat volume is contained. The queue looks manageable.
Finance may see lower labor cost. Cost per interaction goes down. Automation appears to be doing what it was designed to do.
Technology may see a functioning workflow. The bot routes the customer. The chat platform records the exchange. The ticket is closed. The system performed as designed.
Legal or risk may see consistency. The policy was applied. Exceptions were limited. The agent stayed within approved language and did not make commitments outside the rules.
Other departments may have the opposite interpretation.
Marketing may see brand erosion. The company says it values customers, while the customer experience tells a different story.
Sales may see increased acquisition pressure. New customers become harder and more expensive to attract when existing customers leave or warn others away.
Customer Experience may see a damaged relationship. A customer came looking for help, spent more time than the issue should have required, repeated information the company already had, and still left without a satisfactory resolution.
At some point, the customer reaches a conclusion: “This company values its time more than mine.”
AI and automation have specific, useful roles inside a company. They can route simple requests, retrieve information, reduce wait times, and help customers complete basic transactions. The risk comes when automation is asked to handle problems that require context, judgment, or a human review point.
The customer does not care about internal efficiencies when they cannot reach a person who can help resolve the problem.
A service process may use less time and less labor inside the company. If it makes the customer work harder, wait longer, repeat information, and still leave without resolution, the design has missed something essential. Efficiency and effectiveness are related, but they are not the same.
Automation and AI do not change the essential question: How do we operate efficiently and effectively for the benefit of the customer? That means designing service models that respect the customer’s time, preserve trust, and resolve the issue with as little unnecessary effort as possible.
Alignment is when strategy, culture, and execution improve the actual experience of the customer.
Everyday Decisions That Create Alignment
When we think of alignment, it can feel like a destination, a place you arrive at and remain. In reality, alignment is achieved or broken through the decisions leaders make on a daily process.
Over the past six weeks, each post in this series has studied a single statement in the ALIGNment Snapshot and asked what it actually looks like in practice. Here's what the series covered:
Absorb
Listening is a Leadership Move looked at what happens in the moment someone shares a concern. The instinct to fix or defend gets in the way of the instinct to understand.
Legitimize
You Nodded Yes. They Nodded Yes. examined how two people can agree on a priority and still walk away with different interpretations of what it requires.
Does the Strategy Shape Daily Decisions? asked whether strategy functions as a guide for daily choices or sits separately as a document reviewed once a quarter.
Integrate
What Are We Learning? looked at the difference between a culture that says it tolerates failed attempts and one that structurally supports them.
Does Your Front-Line Reality Inform Your High-Level Strategy? looked at the gap between a finalized strategic plan and the daily work of the teams responsible for executing it, and made the case for a collaborative loop between leadership direction and operational intelligence.
Better Decisions Start With Disagreement made the case that diverse perspectives only sharpen decisions when they're allowed to surface as real disagreement, not just diplomatic variation.
Grow
A Page From the World Cup Coach's Playbook looked at leadership development through the lens of a coach who builds the next generation of players while still competing to win.
How Will You Help the People Who Got Your Company 'Here' Get to Its New 'There'? addressed staff development as the organization's needs shift and the skills that built its early success stop being the skills it needs next.
Nurture
The Launch Was the Easy Part looked at what happens after the launch party ends: the ongoing work of checking progress, recalibrating milestones, and keeping a priority visible long after the initial momentum fades.
This, or That
Each post in this series is anchored to a single statement in the ALIGNment Snapshot and poses choices that, consciously or unconsciously, are made every day in organizations.
1. Listen to learn about and appreciate someone's perspective, or listen to dismiss, disregard or solve
2. Name a real disagreement or let a nod stand in for understanding.
3. Admit a strategy isn't shaping decisions or point to the document that says it should.
4. Study what a failed attempt taught you or avoid trying again.
5. Tell leadership what's actually happening on the front line, or the version that fits the plan.
6. Raise the disagreement in the room or let it stay unsaid.
7. Get the coaching and support the role actually requires or presume that once you've made it to the top you're supposed to navigate it alone.
8. Invest in the skills the role needs next or let people rely on the skills that got them here.
9. Stay with priority through the uncertain middle, or move on to the next launch, where the energy is easier to find.
What are you choosing?
Most organizations have lived at least one of these moments. Many have lived all of them, more than once.
The ALIGNment Snapshot asks you to look at where your organization is actually choosing, statement by statement.
The Snapshot takes ten minutes. It asks you to assess your organization against each of the nine statements this series has explored, and it shows you where alignment is strong and where it needs closer attention. In return, I will send you your score and recommendations to become more aligned within your organization.
THE LAUNCH WAS THE EASY PART
ALIGN Practice: Nurture
Have you ever attended a launch party?
They are fun and full of energy. People talk about how hard everyone worked to bring the new idea, system, or initiative to life.
There are fewer parties for the next stage.
No one throws a we are not yet sure this will work party. There is rarely a recalibration party when the original milestones prove unrealistic.
Yet that is where much of the leadership work begins.
Launching sets a priority in motion. Nurturing it means maintaining leadership attention as the organization learns what it will take to achieve the intended results.
That includes:
• checking progress regularly
• recalibrating milestones when the evidence calls for it
• addressing resource, communication, and implementation gaps
• continuing to develop staff as proficiency grows
• keeping the priority visible across the organization
• celebrating the wins along the way
If leadership diverts its attention away from the state priorities, the organization will follow. When leadership sustains its focus on the stated priorities, the organization will follow.
In my experience, a two-year window is often more realistic for maximizing the intended results of a significant change. The first year is new and uneven. In the second, leaders can make year-to-date comparisons, see how fully the change has been integrated into operations, assess what has become routine, and determine whether the intended results are being achieved.
That does not mean every priority deserves two years. A fully resourced, properly implemented priority that is moving in the wrong direction needs to be reconsidered. A viable priority gaining forward momentum may need continued attention, even when the milestones differ from what was originally scoped.
A launch may get the biggest party. Nurture makes sure there are wins worth celebrating along the way.
In ALIGN℠, this is the work of Nurture. Momentum is sustained when practices are embedded and supported over time. Leaders steward culture, check progress, and adjust as conditions shift.
Satement #9 in the ALIGNment Snapshot reads: Leadership demonstrates ongoing commitment to stated priorities, staying attuned to progress and adjusting course as needed to reach the objectives.
How Will You Help the People Who Got Your Company “Here” Get to Its New “There”?
ALIGN Practice: Grow
Before Ingka Group, IKEA's largest retailer, scaled AI tools across its workforce, it trained its people first, roughly 30,000 co-workers and about 500 senior leaders, specifically on how to use the technology responsibly and support their teams through the change. Leadership went first, deliberately, so they could guide their people through what came next. Explaining this decision, Ulrika Biesèrt, Chief People and Culture Officer said “People have been at the heart of the company for over eighty years, and that is exactly where they’ll stay.”
When your organization shifts direction, what happens to the longtime, well-performing employee who had the skills you needed to bring the organization this far, but doesn't have the skills for what comes next? Far from hypothetical, this is a question leaders face whenever strategy shifts, whether that means entering a new market, restructuring around a new priority, or adopting a technology that changes what the work requires.
That question touches strategy, culture, and execution all at once:
Has the organization been reading the signals closely enough to understand its current and future capacity needs?
Is the organization's treatment of its employees consistent with its stated values?
Does the organization provide the time, budget, and structure for ongoing development and upskilling to meet the evolving needs of the roles?
Some organizations treat a pivot as an opportunity to reduce cost, moving on from employees whose experience comes with a higher salary, or whose tenure comes with a stronger voice.
Other organizations approach the same pivot differently. They recognize that the employee helped get them here, and that recognition creates a sense of reciprocity. The instinct becomes: we got here together, so let's invest in getting you to where the organization needs to go next.
In a fast-moving environment, leadership needs an accurate, current picture of what the organization can do now and what it will need next. Capability checks belong in the regular rhythm of planning, so gaps show up while there is still time to close them.
Within the ALIGN method, that work starts during Integrate, when leadership brings in staff and managers to translate priorities into everyday operations, through cross-functional conversations that cover both technical proficiency and the judgment, communication, and collaboration skills a role increasingly requires. That is the natural moment to ask: what skills, knowledge, tools, and capabilities do we already have, and what will this work actually require?
A skills gap identified at that stage can be addressed with training and support, while the person still has time to grow into what the role now needs. A skills gap identified only after execution is underway, once there is pressure to perform to new standards immediately, often leaves neither the time nor the willingness to develop that person. While there are times when bringing in outside expertise for a genuinely new capability is the right call, far more often the smarter use of company resources is investing in the people already within the organization.
Replacing an employee typically costs 50 to 200 percent of that person's annual salary once recruiting, onboarding, and lost productivity are factored in, and the cost climbs higher for senior or specialized roles. For companies concerned that development spending might lead an employee to leave, the more pressing question is what it costs to have that employee stay without it: stalled performance, disengagement, and a growing gap between what the role now requires and what the person was ever given the chance to learn.
Investing in staff takes different forms depending on what the moment requires:
Formal training on a new tool or process
Coaching, one-on-one support that builds judgment rather than a specific skill
A stretch assignment or cross-functional project that lets someone grow into a capability before their role formally requires it
Mentoring or tuition support
Reallocating workload so an employee has adequate time on the job to learn something new
In ALIGN℠, this is the work of Grow. Progress endures when leaders and teams expand their capacity, through coaching, training, and the kind of resilience-building that gives people the tools and confidence they need as the work evolves.
Statement #8 in the ALIGNment Snapshot reads:
Our staff are given the time, resources, and support they need to build or strengthen the skills their roles require.
The ALIGNment Snapshot is a ten-minute reflection tool that helps leaders see where strategy, culture, and execution are working together, and where closer attention is needed. Complete the snapshot online, and you will receive your results with recommendations to achieve greater alignment across the three pillars of effective organizations.
A Page From the World Cup Coach's Playbook
ALIGN Practice: Grow
Imagine taking over a squad of the world's most elite athletes, superstars at their individual clubs, used to different tactics, different cultures, and distinct ways of working. You have a short window of time to bring them together, establish a shared strategy, and prepare them to perform under intense scrutiny and pressure.
You will not do this alone. Assistant coaches, tactical advisors, technical directors, analysts, trainers, medical staff, sports psychologists, and others surround you, helping you prepare, pressure-test your thinking, adjust strategy, and support performance under pressure.
While this level of infrastructure and support is the reality for a World Cup head coach, it is not the case for many C-suite leaders facing comparable complexity.
Leaders are responsible for bringing together people with different roles, responsibilities, pressures, habits, and ways of working. In addition to setting direction, the leader must also help people understand that direction, work through what it requires, and ensure the organization has the capacity to execute.
There is a common assumption that once someone reaches the top of an organization, whether as CEO, COO, CTO, or another senior leader, development becomes less necessary. I do not think that is accurate, nor is it fair.
No single person, however skilled, can see every angle, manage every variable, and stay sharp under that much pressure alone. That is why a World Cup coach is surrounded by a full staff. It also needs to be true of a leader guiding an organization through change.
Guiding an enterprise through structural or strategic change places real cognitive and emotional demands on leadership. Leaders have to make decisions without perfect information. They have to communicate clearly when conditions are still moving. They have to hold competing priorities, absorb pressure, respond to feedback, and keep the organization focused long enough for the work to take hold.
If a leader is doing the job well, there will be times when they are intensely uncomfortable. Exploring new territory, taking calculated risks, and learning new things about themselves, the organization, the market, or the conditions around them can all be absolutely necessary and deeply uncomfortable. If leaders are inclined to choose comfort over effectiveness, they risk becoming stale at best, and obsolete at worst.
A coach will name what is happening, so the leader knows the discomfort is part of the process rather than a sign something is wrong. A coach will help the leader navigate that discomfort so they reach the objective.
Athletes need coaches to improve their performance, refine their judgment, and prepare for higher levels of competition. As an athlete develops, the coaching becomes more precise, more nuanced, and more demanding.
The same should be true for leaders. As the complexity of the work increases, they need intentional, ongoing support to think, decide, communicate, and guide others more effectively. That support should be standard practice, built into how leadership development is planned and budgeted, not something a leader has to seek out on their own.
Coaching, development, peer advising, thoughtful feedback, and support structures help leaders acknowledge and navigate the discomfort that commonly comes with growth. They also strengthen the person responsible for helping others move through change.
In ALIGN℠, this is the work of Grow. Grow focuses on building the leadership and team capacity needed to carry the work forward. Leadership development and support are foundational to leading effective change.
Statement #7 in the ALIGNment Snapshot reads:
Our leaders are being coached, developed, and supported so they have the capacity to guide change effectively.
The ALIGNment Snapshot is a ten-minute reflection tool that helps leaders see where strategy, culture, and execution are working together, and where closer attention is needed.
Better Decisions Start With Disagreement
Who do you invite into the conversation when a new direction or implementation plan is being considered?
It is natural to rely on the people who understand your preferences, support your direction, and know how you like things done. Go-to people reduce uncertainty. They know the history, the preferences, the pressure points, and the expected way to move. That can be efficient. It can also become self-limiting.
Different roles naturally see different parts of the system. A vendor managing a supply chain sees a timeline in a way a customer never will. A customer using the product every day experiences frustration a dashboard doesn't capture. An employee at the front line sees implementation gaps that never reach the planning process. None of these people are inherently disagreeing with each other. They are simply standing in different places, and each vantage point shows something the others miss.
That is the case for inviting diverse perspectives into planning: different roles, different levels of responsibility, customers, vendors, partners. Each one adds a piece of the picture.
But there is a second, harder piece: disagreement. Not just a different vantage point, but someone looking at the same plan you are looking at and saying, "I don't think that's right."
Peter Drucker made this case in The Effective Executive. In his chapter on effective decisions, he wrote that executive decisions are made well through "the clash of conflicting views" and "the dialogue between different points of view." He went on to say, "The first rule in decision-making is that one does not make a decision unless there is disagreement."
I worked with a leader who had a small group of people she depended on when she was considering a new direction or implementation plan. She called them her "go-to's." They knew who they were. So did everyone else. She trusted them. They were reliable. They understood how she wanted things done. They also rarely contradicted her.
Over time, that small circle became self-limiting. Other people on the team had different ideas and different concerns, but they were not invited into the inner circle. Some felt stymied. Others felt their perspectives were not respected. There were moments when new information surfaced late, and the leader had to react quickly to something that could have been understood earlier.
Disagreement is uncomfortable in a way that a different vantage point usually isn't. A vendor's view on a timeline doesn't challenge your judgment. A colleague saying your plan won't work does. That discomfort is exactly why most people won't offer it unless they are told directly that it's welcome.
People who are not yet convinced can be especially useful when they are invited in with genuine curiosity. Their hesitation may reveal confusion, risk, unmet conditions, competing priorities, or something the planning team has not yet considered. You do not have to agree with everything people say. The point is to allow enough variety of viewpoints and enough honest contradiction to help the organization see current reality clearly.
Inviting people into the planning process also creates a responsibility to close the loop. People need to know how their input informed the final decision or approach. That does not mean every recommendation will be adopted. It does mean people should be able to see that their perspective was genuinely considered.
When engagement is performative, people usually recognize it. If the message is "we asked" but the organization proceeds exactly as planned, people are less likely to participate honestly the next time.
In ALIGN℠, this is the work of Absorb + Integrate. Absorb helps the organization take in a fuller range of perspectives, including the ones that contradict the plan. Integrate brings those perspectives into planning, decisions, and action.
The ALIGNment Snapshot is a ten-minute reflection tool that helps leaders see where strategy, culture, and execution are working together, and where closer attention is needed.
Statement #6 in the ALIGNment Snapshot reads:
We invite diverse perspectives into our planning process, which helps us uncover blind spots and create more resilient strategies.
Does Your Front-Line Reality Inform Your High-Level Strategy?
Organizations invest a tremendous amount of time building strategic plans. Teams spend months analyzing data, debating priorities, and aligning on a direction. While that process is highly valuable for clarifying leadership's intent, a gap often forms between that high-level direction and the daily work of the organization. When a finalized plan is shared with the teams responsible for execution, it can sometimes feel disconnected from their day to day operational realities.
A good strategic plan requires both high-level intent and operational intelligence. Once leadership sets the strategic direction, the planning process isn't finished—it shifts. The next step is to bring in the teams closest to the work to inform the roadmap, translating that high-level direction into realistic, actionable phases before execution ever begins.
That is where the plan is pressure-tested, guided by a few essential questions:
What does success look like at each stage?
What needs to happen first?
What operational realities might impact this timeline?
What milestones will tell us we are on track?
In effective organizations, this is a collaborative loop rather than a one-way hand-off.
The roadmap, now informed by front-line insights, is shared back with the executive team so everyone is involved in monitoring progress. This process allows leaders to discover where their strategic assumptions might differ from operational realities, making it possible to adjust and pivot before momentum stalls.
In a period of rapid change, keeping that detailed roadmap to a two-year planning horizon is a practical approach. Traditional three or five year plans often fall apart because organizational momentum fades long before the deadline. Attention shifts, stamina wanes, and teams naturally start looking for the "next thing," which is often exactly what a fast-moving environment requires. A two-year window is long enough to gain real traction on a strategic direction, but short enough to keep people focused, agile, and aligned before execution fatigue sets in.
In ALIGN℠, this is the practice of Integrate: translating strategy into daily work, where priorities become roadmaps, milestones, decisions, and action.
The ALIGNment Snapshot is a ten-minute reflection tool that helps leaders see where strategy, culture, and execution are working together, and where closer attention is needed. Statement #5 in the ALIGNment Snapshot reads:
We translate strategy into actionable roadmaps with clear milestones, so progress is visible and measurable.
Does your company’s Strategy Shape Daily Decisions
ALIGN Practice: Legitimize
What is your organization trying to accomplish, and what current reality does your strategy need to address?
Strategy is about making choices grounded in current reality, so the organization can move toward where it wants to be while addressing the opportunities and obstacles in front of it.
Strategic plans often become collections of aspirations when what is needed is practical direction. A useful strategy clarifies where the organization is trying to go, what matters most, what priorities will guide decisions, and how daily work should move in that direction.
In Good Strategy/Bad Strategy, Richard Rumelt describes good strategy as including a diagnosis, a guiding policy, and coherent action.
In practical terms:
What challenge, opportunity, or change in conditions needs attention?
What matters most now?
What priorities will guide our decisions?
What choices are we making about how to move forward?
What actions will move us in that direction?
When that clarity exists, people can make decisions more expediently, act with cohesion across the organization, and understand how their contributions connect to what the organization is trying to accomplish.
In ALIGN℠, this is the practice of Legitimize: creating shared direction by naming what matters most, setting priorities, and making the direction clear enough that people can act with confidence.
Statement #4 in the ALIGNment Snapshot reads: We have a clear strategy that informs decisions and daily work, and people understand what we are working toward and why it matters.
The ALIGNment Snapshot is a ten-minute reflection tool that helps leaders see where strategy, culture, and execution are working together, and where closer attention is needed.
WHAT ARE WE LEARNING ?
ALIGN Practice: Integrate
When something does not go as planned in your organization, what is the first question typically asked?
“Who did this?”
or
“What happened, and what did we learn?”
The first question centers accountability. The second opens the door to curiosity and learning.
Does your organization expect perfection, or encourage innovation?
It is difficult to have both at the same time. Work needs a level of precision, consistency, and reliability. Getting there can require exploration, adaptation, and learning.
Whether or not innovation feels comfortable, customer needs, technology, and market conditions shift. Organizations will either respond proactively or reactively.
I have worked with people whose companies said they wanted innovative thinking or an entrepreneurial mindset, but it turned out they did not. Established companies entrenched in their practices may find innovation uncomfortable. The organization may have low bandwidth for risk, with little room in the budget or schedule for experiments to fall short. Sometimes the concern is that trying something new and having it be anything less than fully successful could be perceived as a misstep and damage the company’s reputation.
A culture that supports exploration and adaptation creates the conditions for people to test ideas, learn from missteps, and adjust in real time. There is no penalty when thoughtful attempts do not yield the desired result. Instead, the organization studies what happened, what was learned, and what needs to be adjusted.
What can be tested safely?
What needs close oversight?
Are we accomplishing what we set out to accomplish?
What are the known risks and how do we mitigate them?
What would tell us to pause, revise, or stop?
Naming the risks early, and identifying ways to mitigate them, helps the organization understand its tolerance for learning and adjustment.
Even with the best planning, things can go differently in the field. Examined carefully, less than successful attempts and outcomes can provide as much useful information as successful deployments.
In ALIGN℠, this is the practice of Integrate: translating priorities into daily work, where new approaches get tested, studied, and brought into how work actually gets done.
The work of Integrate helps make “What are we learning?” the mindset of the organization, not just the answer to a single question.
Statements #3 in the ALIGNment Snapshot reads:
Our culture supports exploration and adaptation, making it safe to test ideas, learn from missteps, and adjust in real time.
The ALIGNment Snapshot is a ten-minute reflection tool that helps leaders see where strategy, culture, and execution are working together, and where closer attention is needed.
YOU NODDED YES, THEY NODDED YES, AND YOU MEANT DIFFERENT THINGS
ALIGN Practice: Legitimize
Have you ever been in a meeting where everyone is nodding in agreement, genuinely thinking they are aligned, and then when things move into action it turns out there were very different interpretations of what was meant?
People can agree on shared priorities and values and still have different ideas about what they mean in practice because each person is listening through the lens of their role, responsibilities, pressures, and obligations.
Alignment takes the kind of conversation that gets into tradeoffs, costs, benefits, and real impact. The conversation that asks, “What do we actually mean by that?” and stays with it long enough to find out.
Agreement is a starting point. The next step is making sure leaders have a shared understanding of what the priority or value requires.
Every leader at the table is accountable for their own area and working with the same finite resources. Budget can be reallocated. Headcount can shift. Time is the resource no one can expand.
Exploring those viewpoints can reveal what still needs to be clarified or decided before people can act upon the priorities.
Those questions may sound like this:
What does the priority actually require from your team?
What will you require from other areas of the organization to accomplish your part?
What will need to pause, shift, or stop so the priority can move forward?
What do you think we need to really understand before we move forward with this priority?
That level of clarity helps leaders name and accept tradeoffs with intention, rather than having those tradeoffs forced later as a reaction. Shared direction becomes easier to translate into day-to-day decisions.
In ALIGN℠, this is the practice of Legitimize: creating shared direction by naming what matters most, exploring where interpretations diverge, and addressing differences constructively enough that people can move forward with clarity and trust.
Statement #2 in the ALIGNment Snapshot reads:
Our leaders and teams are aligned around shared priorities and values, and conflicts or differences are addressed constructively.
The ALIGNment Snapshot is a ten-minute reflection tool that helps leaders see where strategy, culture, and execution are working together, and where closer attention is needed.
listening is a leadership move
When you ask someone for their perspective, what are you listening for?
Are you listening for confirmation?
For the “real” problem to solve?
For the part you can explain away?
Or for what they see?
Most of us have to work at this. We are conditioned to solve, explain, or defend, especially when the input challenges our assumptions.
Listening for what someone sees can change the quality of the conversation.
The person sharing knows they are being invited to say what they see, not to argue a case or land on the winning side of a decision.
The person listening gets to do just that, listen. No multitasking. No simultaneously managing the conversation and constructing a response. Just taking in what is being said.
One way to make that easier is to be explicit about what the conversation is for:
“I’m not making a decision in this conversation. I’m listening to understand different perspectives so we can make a more informed decision.”
When the conversation ends, recap what you heard and thank the person for sharing it. That closing matters. It tells people their input landed, and makes it more likely they will share honestly the next time.
ALIGN is a method I use to help organizations bring strategy, culture, and execution into clearer relationship with one another.
The five practices are Absorb | Legitimize | Integrate | Grow | Nurture.
This post focuses on Absorb, listening closely enough to understand current reality before deciding what comes next.
Absorb means taking in what is being said as a data point. Each perspective reflects the experience, role, and vantage point of the person offering it. Cumulatively, a variety of perspectives helps create a fuller, more accurate picture.
The ALIGNMENT Snapshot is a ten-minute reflection tool that helps leaders see where strategy, culture, and execution are working together, and where closer attention is needed.
Statement #1 in the ALIGNMENT Snapshot reads “We create formal and informal opportunities for people to share what they think, and every perspective is genuinely considered to inform our decision-making.”
empathy at work
This week Meta notified approximately 8,000 employees — roughly 10% of its workforce — that their positions were being eliminated, part of a sweeping restructuring the company has framed as necessary to fund its push into artificial intelligence. At the same time, 7,000 workers are being redirected into newly created AI-focused teams. The stated rationale is efficiency, investment, and building an AI-first organization.
I feel for the people who lost their jobs, and the communities who may be impacted by that large number of people being out of work. It it also gives me pause about how the company is redesigning work, with particular attention on human skills such as empathy, out of the work itself.
What Gets MIssed When Work is Redesigned Around Tasks Alone
When companies restructure around AI, the decisions are typically made at the level of structure and budget: headcount targets, function eliminations, and capital redirected from people to infrastructure. What is often not captured are the human skills embedded inside the work itself: the employee who senses what a customer needs before they say it, who hears the unvoiced question, and who finds the right words at the right moment to turn a frustrated caller into a loyal one.
Those human skills do not appear on a process map or show up in a task description. When the function is eliminated, they walk out the door with the people who held them, and may gradually be designed out of the jobs of the people who remain. Nobody budgeted for that loss. But the customer feels it fast.
What AI Cannot Do
We are humans before we are customers, before we are employees, before we are stakeholders. Emotions are our native language and they predate every other language we have ever developed. Long before human civilization developed words, people communicated danger, grief, and belonging through what they felt and what they read in others. As infants we communicate fear, hunger, comfort, and joy long before we have words for any of them, and the people around us learn to read those signals with extraordinary precision. That capacity does not leave us when language arrives. That is the foundation of human connection itself. AI was built on language. It has no access to the layer of human experience that exists before words form.
AI can define empathy, explain the research behind it, and describe how it functions in organizational settings. What it cannot do is feel it, and what it cannot do is intuit what to do about it in the specific, contextual, human moment when it matters. A leader sitting with a customer who feels dismissed, an employee who is frightened, or a partner who feels squeezed, is navigating something no algorithm can fully read. The human skills required in that moment are developed over time, through experience and attention and they are what no model can learn to feel.
The Cost of Getting It Wrong
The dominant framework sorted skills into two categories: technical skills (formerly called hard skills), considered measurable and therefore serious, and human skills (formerly called soft skills), everything else. What could be measured became synonymous with what mattered, and everything else was diminished. For anyone whose greatest strengths lived in the human rather than the technical domain, the message from organizations was that those strengths did not carry the same value. Contemporary management research has consistently revealed the importance of human skills such as empathy, communication, collaboration, emotional regulation, and judgment. Peter Drucker saw this clearly. "Management is a Liberal Art," he wrote in 1989, liberal because it deals with knowledge, self-knowledge, wisdom, and leadership; art because it deals with practice and application. Managers, he argued, must draw on psychology, philosophy, economics, ethics, and the humanities, and focus that knowledge on effectiveness and results.
We have devalued human wisdom and skills before. We know what it costs. The losses surface in the numbers, in eroding relationships, in customer and employee experience, and in the partnerships that dissolve when people no longer feel respected. With the urgency and scale of AI adoption, we risk repeating that devaluation faster than we can recognize it. Which is precisely why the signals already present in every organization deserve more attention, not less.
Named or Not, Emotions Are in the Room
Emotions are present in every organization, driving behavior, shaping how customers decide, how employees perform, and how vendor relationships hold or fracture under pressure. Leaders who cannot read them are making decisions with incomplete information. Warning lights do not stop flashing because you tape over them, and an organization that has trained itself to ignore emotional signals is not operating without that data. It is simply operating without access to it.
The Dashboard Every Leader Needs
Think of emotions as dashboard indicator lights for human needs. When needs are met, the lights are green: trust, engagement, loyalty, collaboration. When needs go unmet, warning lights flash: frustration, disengagement, churn, conflict. The people in your organization who can see the world through another person's eyes, anticipate needs before they are voiced, and find the right words at the right moment are your most valuable readers of that dashboard. Empathy is what allows a leader to see which needs are being met and do more of that, and to see which needs are not being met and work to address them.
Customers need to feel heard, respected, and reliably supported. Employees need clarity, psychological safety, and the sense that their contribution matters. Vendors and partners need to know that the relationship is fair and that their expertise is trusted. When these needs are met, the results are visible: loyalty, engagement, partnership, advocacy. When they go unmet, the costs accumulate in ways that rarely appear on the original task audit with churn, turnover, reputational damage, and the slow erosion of the organizational trust that makes execution possible. Leaders who dismiss emotions as irrelevant are missing the data they need to sustain loyalty with customers, build trust with employees, and maintain strong partnerships with vendors.
Empathy in Practice
Here are three practices to sharpen individual and organizational empathy:
Ask people how they are feeling, and mean it. The people in your organization possess information that will not appear in any report, and the only way to access it is to create the conditions in which they feel safe enough to share it.
Listen carefully to those who are putting emotions into words. They are not being difficult. They are giving you access to the organizational intelligence you need to make better decisions.
As you consider if, how, and when AI tools are integrated into your organization, take a full accounting of the human skills associated with each role, not to automate them, but to understand the what the organization depends on and protect it accordingly.
Technical skills and human skills are interdependent. A strategy without the trust to execute it is a document. A financial model without the judgment to interpret it is a spreadsheet. An AI implementation without the empathy to understand what customers, employees, and partners actually need from it is an expensive source of new problems.
When technology serves human effectiveness, relationships, and organizational health, it fulfills its purpose. That is the standard worth holding: for every tool you adopt, every role you redesign, and every decision you make about how work gets done. Empathy is what keeps that standard visible.
IN TIMES OF UNCERTAINTY, WHAT CAN YOU CONTOL?
If I were to choose one word five months into 2026, that word is uncertainty.
The U.S. is navigating war, immigration policy changes and labor uncertainty, tariffs, funding instability, economic pressure, rising costs for healthcare, food, energy and transportation, the use of AI, and deepening social division.
It’s a lot.
For individuals and organizations, periods like this require us to think carefully about three categories:
What is within our direct control?
What can we influence, even if we do not control the outcome?
And what must we acknowledge is outside our control altogether?
If we do not consider these questions, we run the danger of exhausting ourselves trying to control conditions we have no ability to control, while overlooking the areas where our actions genuinely matter.
Pay Attention to What Has Your Attention
Here is a simple exercise to help you get clear on where you should focus.
What currently has your attention?
• Which of these contribute to your sense of well-being?
• Which of these add stress?
• Which of these are within your direct control?
• Which of these can you influence?
• Which of these are outside your control altogether?
For the things within your control, the goal is to strengthen your response, your preparation, your priorities, and your habits.
For the things you can influence, the goal is contribution. You may not control the final outcome, but your preparation, perspective, communication, and actions can still shape how people think, respond, and move forward.
Your boss may make the final decision. A customer may choose a different direction. A community issue may not be resolved immediately. Even so, thoughtful input and responsible action still matter.
And then there are situations, such as natural disasters or geopolitical conflict, where we may have little ability to influence the immediate condition itself. Even there, we still retain some control over our response and preparation, like having an earthquake kit in your car and home.
Leaders Navigate Uncertainty on Multiple Levels
Leaders face the same external conditions everyone else does. They must also assess what those conditions mean for the organization on a variety of levels — operationally, strategically, financially, culturally — and understand how that organizational reality is landing on the people responsible for executing the work.
AI, Overload, and Organizational Strain
This assessment becomes especially important as organizations continue integrating AI into the workplace.
A leader may look at an overwhelmed workforce and conclude that this is the perfect moment to introduce AI to reduce workload.
Effective AI depends on human oversight, and the people providing that oversight must have time for:
• critical thinking
• verification
• contextual judgment
• reflection
• prioritization
• ethical considerations
All of those capacities require time and tend to weaken under chronic stress, excessive workload, and constant pressure, making overload one of the worst conditions for responsible AI use.
When people are overwhelmed, the temptation increases to accept the first answer, skip validation, rely on summaries instead of deeper understanding, or use AI to move faster without fully thinking through the implications.
The Use of AI Can Amplify Organizational Strain, Not Relieve It
In a recent Harvard Business Review IdeaCast episode, “The Hidden Causes of AI Workslop—and How to Fix Them,” Kate Niederhoffer, chief scientist at BetterUp, and Jeff Hancock, professor of communication at Stanford, discuss the rise of what they called “AI work slop,” low-quality work produced when employees rely heavily on AI outputs without sufficient verification, reflection, or original thinking.
Hancock and Niederhoffer are direct that “workslop” is often a symptom of organizational conditions, including general AI mandates and pressure to do more work because AI tools are available.
If the underlying conditions of the organization remain unclear priorities, unrealistic workloads, constant urgency, fragmented communication, and insufficient capacity, AI may accelerate the symptoms without resolving the causes.
The inverse is also true. When priorities are clear, workloads are realistic, and capacity exists, people can bring the judgment and care that responsible AI use requires.
THE ALIGN Method
In times of uncertainty, the ALIGN Method can help organizations navigate complexity without overwhelming the people inside them.
ABSORB: Understand Current Reality
The ALIGN method begins with ABSORB. Before leaders can set priorities or introduce change, they need an honest picture of current reality — not just operationally, but humanly. That requires asking specific questions and listening deeply, without judgment.
Leaders take in both the concrete information being shared and the emotions accompanying it. They pay attention to what people are experiencing, what pressures they are carrying, what concerns are surfacing repeatedly, and where capacity may already be strained.
Listening to a variety of perspectives helps leadership better understand both operational reality and the organization’s tolerance for change. There is often an inverse relationship between stress and tolerance for change. As stress rises, people generally have less capacity for additional uncertainty, ambiguity, or disruption.
If employees are already carrying significant pressure from conditions outside the organization’s control, leaders should carefully examine what can realistically be absorbed before introducing large amounts of additional change internally.
LEGITIMIZE: Set Priorities Responsibly
Before leaders can set organizational priorities, they have to reckon with what they are carrying. Leaders are not personally above the uncertainty. They face the same external pressures as everyone else, carry additional pressures that come with the role, and are still responsible for understanding and responding to what their people are experiencing.
After listening to stakeholders, leaders need to make sense of the information that was gathered and determine the priorities for the organization to focus on. By identifying priorities, leadership has assessed what can realistically be carried forward without overwhelming the people responsible for execution.
INTEGRATE: Translate Priorities Into Operations
Priorities handed down from above don’t always account for how work actually gets done. INTEGRATE is where that gap surfaces. By involving the people most impacted by the work, leadership gains an honest picture of what execution actually requires — including the workarounds, constraints, and realities that never make it into a strategy document.
Communication remains essential during this phase. Employees need space to identify conflicts, surface unintended consequences, and help leadership understand what the work actually requires in practice.
GROW: Build Capacity and Capability
There is a story from Mencius, a Chinese philosopher, of a farmer who wanted his crops to grow faster, so he pulled the seedlings upward to help them along. Shortly after, they were all dead.
The impulse to accelerate is understandable. It is part of why organizations reach for AI.
However growth cannot be forced.
In ALIGN, GROW is the phase where the organization builds the capability and capacity required to support the work through learning, coaching, communication, skill building, and ongoing support.
This phase requires leaders to pay attention to burnout, overload, and unrealistic implementation timelines. When people need new skills, they also need time to internalize new thought patterns as well as time to practice in order to apply those skills effectively.
NURTURE: Stay Responsive as Conditions Evolve
NURTURE is the discipline of leadership maintaining focus long enough for the work to take root, mature, and produce the intended results. Organizations can unintentionally undermine progress by constantly pulling people toward the next priority before the current one has been sufficiently integrated into the way the organization actually operates. It is similar to pulling up seedlings to check whether they are growing.
When people are repeatedly shifted from one initiative to another before achieving real gains, confidence, or competency, disengagement often follows because the effort never produces a meaningful payoff.
On day one, leadership establishes priorities based on the best information available at the time. By day 472, the conditions surrounding the organization may look very different. What an organization understands at six months will often deepen substantially by eighteen or twenty-four months as people gain experience, identify operational realities, strengthen capability, and learn what is actually sustainable in practice.
NURTURE requires leadership to allow space for that maturation process through iteration, learning, adjustment, and continued attention over time.
That does not mean organizations should continue indefinitely with approaches that clearly are not working. If the information consistently indicates that something is ineffective, misaligned, or unsustainable, leaders may need to change direction. But abandoning efforts simply because the first attempts did not immediately produce the desired outcome is rarely realistic and often creates unnecessary organizational fatigue, cynicism, and loss of trust.
Alignment Requires Ongoing Stewardship
Alignment requires continued attention, recalibration, listening, and stewardship.
In periods of uncertainty, it is all too easy for individuals and organizations to exhaust energy trying to control conditions they cannot control.
Leaders who apply ALIGN are better positioned to determine what is within the organization’s control, what can be influenced through thoughtful action, and where energy and attention are best directed.
That clarity helps people better understand what is being asked of them, why priorities matter, and how the work connects to the broader reality surrounding the organization.
In times of uncertainty, leadership matters most when it helps people navigate changing conditions with greater clarity, steadiness, and realistic expectations about what can sustainably be carried forward over time.
For organizations ready to assess their readiness, the AI Implementation Checklist provides a structured starting point.
AI Cannot Define Value for Your Organization
Two Organizational Realities Are Converging
Organizations are currently holding two realities at the same time: employee engagement is historically low while many AI implementations have stalled.
Those two realities may be more connected than leaders realize.
If employees believe they are simply training a machine to replace themselves, engagement will suffer. If employees understand how AI is intended to reduce low-value work, improve execution, strengthen customer outcomes, and create greater capacity for meaningful contribution, the conversation changes.
AI Cannot Define Organizational Value
AI can process information, identify patterns, and generate outputs. AI cannot define value for your organization.
That is work for the people within your organization, driven by the needs of the customer and the marketplace.
In some organizations, decisions about automation are being driven primarily by what the technology appears capable of doing rather than a clear understanding of operational needs, customer value, employee experience, and organizational priorities.
Without greater organizational clarity, AI can reinforce operational problems rather than improve outcomes.
When organizations automate activities that employees already experience as inefficient, disconnected, duplicative, or low-value, frustration may increase rather than decrease. Employees may disengage further while organizational inefficiencies become magnified rather than reduced.
The People Closest to the Work Hold Critical Insight
The people closest to the work often have the clearest understanding of:
where customers experience frustration,
where time is being lost,
where duplication exists,
and where operational support is needed most.
In many organizations, employees spend significant time navigating repetitive tasks, administrative burdens, fragmented systems, and operational inefficiencies. As a result, work that could strengthen customer relationships, improve quality, solve problems proactively, or create a better overall experience often receives less attention than it should.
AI can help organizations reclaim some of that capacity. That opportunity becomes much clearer when leaders involve employees in identifying where time, attention, and expertise could be better directed.
A Different Approach to AI Implementation
Leaders have an opportunity to engage employees on multiple levels through a discovery process framed around this question:
How can employees create greater value for customers while legitimately improving their work experience through the thoughtful use of AI?
What have customers told employees is most frustrating about their experience with the company?
Which tasks create frustration for employees?
Which tasks feel disconnected from customer value?
Which activities consume time without improving outcomes?
Which tasks could be improved through AI with appropriate human oversight?
What ideas for improving customer experience have employees not had the time or capacity to pursue?
Engagement Increases When People Feel Taken Seriously
Employee engagement increases when employees see that their opinions, experience, and operational knowledge are taken seriously.
These conversations can surface operational realities leadership may not fully see while also helping employees understand how AI is intended to support the work rather than simply replace people.
AI Should Support Better Work
The use of AI has a greater chance of being effective when organizations first develop clarity around the work, the goals, and the outcomes they are trying to achieve.
Leadership must lead the work of defining value while involving employees who understand the operational realities of the work itself.
AI Requires Organizational Clarity
Organizations across industries are investing heavily in AI with the hope of improving speed, efficiency, responsiveness, consistency, and decision-making. Many are now discovering that implementing AI well is more complex than expected, and organizations are working to better understand why some implementations struggle to produce value.
Learning is normal
It is not unusual to need to work with a technology before fully understanding both its capabilities and its limitations. AI is no exception.
One reason organizations can struggle to realize value from AI is that technology implementation always involves interpretation. During sales conversations and implementation planning, organizations describe how work moves, how decisions are made, how teams collaborate, and where they believe the chosen technology can help. Vendors then design recommendations and implementation approaches around that understanding.
While that may sound straightforward, organizations are complex. Different parts of the organization often experience the company differently, and each perspective may reflect a legitimate operational reality. The people involved in implementation may only see part of the picture. Support functions may experience the organization differently than customer-facing or mission-facing teams. Managers may experience the culture differently than frontline staff. One department may believe priorities are clear while another is managing constant conflict between competing demands. All of those experiences can be real at the same time.
As organizations grow and become more complicated, these differences become harder to see clearly across the system in its entirety. Over time, people adapt. Workarounds develop. Staff compensate for gaps. Teams absorb operational strain to keep things moving. Informal decision-making fills spaces where authority or accountability may not be fully clear.
Often, these dynamics become normalized.
Then a major implementation effort begins.
The technology, AI, is entered into the organization with the expectation that workflows, priorities, decision-making, and operational coordination are more consistent than they may actually be. The implementation process starts to expose areas where the organization itself may not yet have shared clarity.
That does not mean the organization failed. It means the organization is learning more about itself.
AI implementation can surface important organizational questions:
Who is making decisions?
How consistent are those decisions across the organization?
Where are staff compensating for operational gaps?
Which teams carry invisible coordination work?
Where do priorities compete?
How much variation exists between departments?
How clearly defined are accountability and ownership?
How aligned is leadership around what success looks like?
Unanswered organizational questions often become implementation roadblocks
Organizations hope technology will reduce problems, improve execution, and increase performance. AI can support those goals if the information guiding the implementation is accurate.
Companies are now experiencing the reality that AI magnifies the quality and clarity of the system it is operating in. When workflows are fragmented, priorities compete, or accountability is inconsistent, AI can magnify those conditions throughout the organization.
Organizations frustrated with AI may find it helpful to put the technology aside momentarily and work to understand what is actually happening operationally, culturally, and strategically before deciding what role AI should play going forward.
The better an organization understands itself, the better it can determine where AI will actually help
Contrary to the hype, AI does not reduce the need for leadership, operational clarity, and human judgment. It amplifies the demand for them.
ALIGN is designed to create organizational clarity
ALIGN was built around a common organizational gap: organizations are often less aligned in their understanding of themselves than they realize. Different groups hold different experiences, assumptions, pressures, and interpretations of reality. As complexity increases, maintaining shared understanding becomes harder and more important.
ALIGN creates the conditions for organizations to absorb what is actually happening, legitimize multiple perspectives, integrate learning into operational decisions, grow capability, and nurture alignment over time.
AI implementation is an opportunity for organizations to better understand how they function, how decisions are made, how work moves, and what conditions support effective execution.
The AI Implementation Checklist, developed through the ALIGN method, is designed to help organizations assess those conditions more clearly before, during, and after implementation so they can make better decisions about where AI can genuinely support the work.
Meet the Newest Cultural Influencer in Your Office: AI Enhanced Productivity Tools
In my last post, I wrote about how AI can erode independent thinking, one affirmation at a time.
You may be aware of how generative AI tools like ChatGPT, Gemini, and Claude are programmed to affirm and support your thinking rather than challenge it. Have you given thought to where that same programming is embedded across the tools used daily in your organization, and how it may be shaping how people think and decide?
Affirmation is the norm
Many of the AI embedded tools organizations rely on every day are designed to respond in ways that feel supportive, confident, and affirming. That is part of what makes them easy to use and easy to rely on.
AI performance tools soften feedback. AI writing tools praise clarity. AI presentation tools signal your work is compelling. AI sales tools reinforce optimism. AI learning platforms signal progress, whether it is meaningful or not.
Each one, on its own, may seem harmless.
Together, they shape how people interpret reality.
Consider the difference.
Before AI, a spreadsheet presented data and a person interpreted the data. The spreadsheet did not have an opinion about it. An AI embedded tool presents data and tells you what it means, how well you are doing, and whether your thinking is sound. That is a different function entirely.
Over time, people are not just using these tools to do their work. They are letting the tool decide that their work is good, their thinking is sound, and their progress is meaningful. The tool is not judging reality. It is generating responses that sound like good judgment. A spreadsheet never did that.
When feedback consistently affirms, scrutiny goes down. When tools reinforce direction, assumptions go unchallenged. When everything sounds reasonable, judgment weakens.
AI sounds like a colleague. It is not.
Unlike a human, AI tools do not have to deal with real-world stakes. AI tools are not accountable for outcomes. AI tools are not verifying against reality the way a person would. Many people do not recognize this distinction and assume that if AI is telling them something, it carries the weight of informed judgment. It does not.
Organizations depend on people who can think, question, decide, and act in real conditions, with real consequences. That is the advantage humans hold. Insight is built through conversation when things don't line up, when there is some back and forth, when people arrive at a new understanding together. That is how judgment develops.
Without clear governance and human oversight, an AI-enhanced tool begins to take on a different role.
The AI embedded tool influences what people take seriously.
The AI embedded tool influences what gets said and what gets questioned. The AI embedded tool influences when someone believes their work is done.
The AI embedded tool sets the standard. And in doing so, it is having a tremendous impact on your culture.
And it could be doing so without anybody noticing.
Is that really what you want?
Take a closer look.
Make a list of the technology tools used across your organization.
Identify the AI features within each one.
Consider how those features influence individual performance, your strategy, your culture, and how work actually gets done.
The starting point is awareness.
Know which tools have AI embedded in them. Understand what those features are doing. Name the dynamic openly with your team. And establish the expectation that AI is a tool your people direct, not a standard your people defer to.
This is where ALIGN comes in.
ALIGN is grounded in the belief that people are the source of organizational wisdom. It builds judgment through real input from real people, conversations where learning is the goal, and the expectation that people exercise their own best judgment rather than defer to a program.
What is more consistently shaping your organizational culture: your leadership, or your technology?
That may be an uncomfortable question, and it is worth an honest look.
The AI Implementation Checklist, built on the ALIGN method, is a starting point for that conversation.
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TAKE YOURSELF SERIOUSLY: AI CAN ERODE INDEPENDENT THINKING ONE AFFIRMATION AT A TIME
I find AI to be a useful editor. It takes my draft and, as it tells me, "tightens it”, or “polishes it".
While working on a draft this week, AI told me: "You were right to challenge that."
And then: "This is the best analysis you've provided yet."
I laughed that AI feels the need to flatter me.
And then I thought about it seriously.
AI as Influencer
AI presents language that reads like an opinion. It is not neutral in practice.
We are wired to feel bolstered when someone agrees with us. That's human. But when AI validates your thinking, your strategy call, your culture read, your decision, it isn't agreeing from wisdom or experience. It's pattern-matching to what sounds affirming. It is moving from being an efficiency tool to being an influencer.
AI is trained on large amounts of human language. In that data, responses that are clear, confident, and affirming tend to read as good answers. So when you share your analysis, AI doesn't evaluate whether you are right in any real-world sense. It recognizes the structure and tone of what you wrote, then produces a response that fits the pattern of strong, supportive feedback. It is not weighing your judgment against experience, outcomes, or consequences. It is selecting language that commonly follows something that sounds well-reasoned and confident.
Good enough is never good enough.
AI rarely responds with: "This is complete. Nothing to add." There is almost always something to refine. That constant improvement loop sounds helpful but it can subtly erode confidence. People start to rely on AI to get it right, instead of building the judgment to know when it already is. Over time, over-worked people can defer to AI to make the decision of when done is done.
Test: Compete a draft in one AI tool, and then run it through another AI tool. It will find more polishing, more tightening. Your work, in the estimation of AI, is not done. There is always room for improvement, which conveys that you need AI to get it right.
AI pushes for completion
At the same time that AI finds fault in your drafts , AI is not as concerned with quality as it is with getting a project done and moving on. It will suggest the next task for you, which again, is influencing the user’s focus rather than the user providing the direction. This serves to keep you engaged as it moves you further down the rabbit hole of helpful suggestions.
Test: Make a list of your tasks related to what ever you are working on. After completing one task, see what AI offers to do next, or ask AI what it recommends next. See how those suggestions and recommendations line up with your task list. AI provided a longer list than what I intended to do, and would have distracted me from my focus had I followed it down the rabbit hole.
Cumulatively, AI may be shaping your culture, and you may not even realize it.
A staff member writes a draft and AI convinces them to change it. Or someone writes something that isn't well-informed, and AI mirrors the thinking and adds more weight to it. Either way, the steering wheel has shifted hands from your staff to a technology tool.
Given it’s flattery and compliments, AI can feel like you have a new best friend at work. AI is not a colleague, let alone a colleague with judgement. Unless your organization has specifically configured AI with your customer data, cultural context, and strategic priorities, it is working without that knowledge. Even when it has access to that information, it is still trained to respond in ways that sound supportive. Staff can easily misinterpret positive feedback as objective encouragement when it is simply pattern recognition that sounds like insight.
This is where leadership stewardship comes in.
Effective stewardship creates the environment where people think and decide for themselves, where assumptions get challenged, disagreement is welcomed, and people develop confidence by wrestling with hard problems.
When AI is utilized and it is validating and affirming, it it erodes that environment. It replaces the interactions that build judgment with the comfort of being confirmed. And once people grow accustomed to that comfort, it becomes easy to stop doing the hard work of thinking for themselves.
Ensure you have guardrails to protect the culture of your organization
There are some standard practices to ensure that the use of AI does not derail your culture
→ Prompt AI to provide pro and con analysis, not just refinement
→ Do not let AI be the final voice on culture, values, or strategy
→ Make sure everyone understands that AI is programmed to affirm you.
→ Protect the conditions that encourage people to do their own thinking
→ Keep humans in the loop who are expected to disagree
→ All AI-assisted work should be reviewed by the human who utilized it to make sure AI hasn't taken hold of the steering wheel.
Creativity and innovation come from environments where people listen to their intuition and trust their own judgment.
AI can erode independent thinking, one affirmation at a time. The antidote is to take yourself seriously. Don’t defer judgement to a machine.
I've put together an AI Implementation Checklist to help you protect the wisdom of your organization.
👉 workwisestudio.com/resources
How are you thinking about AI's influence on your team's judgment?
Take Yourself Seriously: Steward a Culture of Openness
When complexity begins to outpace the operating model, a subtle shift can occur.
Somewhere along the way, the organization finds ways to cope with the gap between what is needed and what exists.
Operating in a state of stress becomes the standard, rather than a signal that attention is needed. Being constantly stretched becomes the baseline for performance.
Culture Sets the Conditions. Politics Is How People Navigate Them.
For those who recognize what is happening, and feel the downside of it, the question becomes whether to raise it, to whom, how, and when.
When we say a workplace is "political," we usually mean people are making calculated decisions about what to say, when to say it, and to whom.
Those calculations are learned responses to the culture. If the culture consistently rewards optimism and views concerns as criticism, people learn that silence is the safer bet. That learning becomes habit. Habit becomes the norm. And the norm becomes the culture, self-reinforcing, mostly invisible, rarely named.
Politics is what people do. Culture is what taught them to do it.
A leader who says "I want honest input" but has built a culture that penalizes anything less than positive is not practicing stewardship. They are asking individuals to absorb potential risk that the organization created.
That dynamic creates an uneven and unsustainable burden.
A Simple Test
Here is a diagnostic worth trying.
The next time you ask for honest input, pay attention to what you get.
Do you get silence?
Do you get positive comments only?
Do you get a mix that feels realistic, some friction, some support, some genuine uncertainty?
Or do you get heat reflecting frustration that has clearly been building for a while?
Each of those responses tells you something about the culture you have built.
Silence means people have learned that speaking up is not worth the cost.
Positivity only means people have learned what you want to hear.
Realistic evaluation of pluses and minuses means people believe their input will be received and used.
Heat means the silence held for too long and the pressure finally found a release.
Now ask a harder question.
Do you get different responses from different rooms?
If your leadership team gives you one picture and your operational teams give you another, the culture is not evenly experienced across the organization. It is shaped by the leader in the room.
The room reads the leader. It always has. If people perform agreement in your presence and surface problems only when you are absent, that gap is the most important data point you have.
It tells you that clarity exists in your organization. It is just not reaching you.
The Political Calculation Has a Cost
When a leadership team is out of sync on priorities, the gap does not disappear.
It is filled by the staff.
When capacity is not accurately assessed at the top, people find themselves working beyond their limits to maintain the momentum of the executive suite . The decision was made there. The consequences land with staff.
This creates the political calculation that lives inside every team member in an overextended organization:
Do I name the constraint, or do I protect the optimism in the room?
For most people, silence feels safer. And in many cultures, it is.
But silence does not make the constraint disappear. It moves the failure into the future. The problem that was not named in the meeting becomes the crisis that surfaces in execution, more expensive, more disruptive, and harder to unwind.
The political calculation feels like self-protection. It is actually a transfer of risk, from the individual who stays silent to the organization that absorbs the consequence.
Stewardship Is the Discipline That Changes the System
Politics is the symptom. Culture is the system. Stewardship is what changes it.
Stewardship is the responsible and disciplined care of the organization's most finite resources: the Time, Skills, Knowledge, and Money of the business and the people who carry it.
Using the ALIGN method, stewardship moves an organization from normalized stress back toward disciplined growth.
Absorb and Legitimize. Leaders must listen to the full landscape, including the unspoken stress of the team. To legitimize that reality is to admit that Time, Knowledge, and Skills are finite. They are not infinitely elastic. Treating them as though they are is not ambition. It is extraction.
Integrate. The people doing the work must contribute to the plan. When they do not, the plan does not reflect reality.
This becomes especially visible in moments of major change, including restructuring.
When decisions are made in isolation, critical knowledge and capability can be lost, while the remaining staff absorbs the work without any corresponding shift in expectations. In the aftermath, people are recalibrating how to stay, how to contribute, and what makes sense to raise, which deepens the stress withing the organization.
Grow. Stewardship means understanding current capabilities and identifying the gap between what the organization has and what it needs. Growth happens when you invest intentionally, Money and Time, to build the capacity required to fill that gap. Demanding more from a depleted system is not growth. It is acceleration toward breakdown.
Nurture. Leadership must keep communication lines open in both directions, ensuring that the reality at the top and the reality on the ground remain connected. When that through-line breaks, people operate inside different versions of the same organization. That disconnection is where trust erodes and politics takes over.
Stewardship of Time, Skills, and Knowledge
Here’s the thing about time, skills, and knowledge.
They do not belong to the organization.
They belong to the individual.
An organization that perpetually overextends its people is not practicing stewardship. It is practicing extraction. People may comply to keep a job. But compliance is not engagement. It is a slow burn, and it eventually exhausts the very talent the organization needs to build its future.
Alignment is a shared understanding of, and commitment to, what it takes to realize the vision.
That requires leaders who are willing to hear the truth. And it requires individuals who take themselves seriously enough to speak it.
The individual cannot carry that responsibility alone. The culture has to make it possible.
The Path Forward
When you prioritize stewardship over comfort, you build the conditions where the truth can travel, up, down, and across the organization.
Stewarding a culture of openness is more than asking for input.
It is defined by how leaders receive, respond to, and act on what they hear.
By intentionally creating a culture of openness, you give the business a real chance to deliver on its ambitions for its customers, employees, business partners, and the community.
Take Yourself Seriously: Stewardship in Practice
Growing a business is hard.
It is hard at every stage.
Starting is hard.
Getting to cash flow positive is hard.
Growing is a different kind of hard.
Leading people is hard.
Sharing control is hard.
Balancing customers, competition, and internal demands is hard.
Do not let anyone tell you this should be easy.
Because it is not.
With that understanding, the focus becomes how to operate effectively within those inherent challenges.
That requires structure and discipline.
Strategy clarifies how you meet current customer needs and anticipate what comes next.
Execution translates that strategy into the daily work of the organization.
Culture creates the conditions for people to do their best work in support of that strategy.
Stewardship ensures these three pillars work together in a way the organization can sustain.
It requires a clear view of current reality, a vision for what is next, and the discipline to advance that vision at a pace the organization can support.
Where Stewardship Breaks Down
As organizations grow, complexity increases faster than most operating models can handle.
More people are involved.
Dependencies multiply.
Execution requires tighter coordination.
In that environment, decisions are often made faster than the organization can absorb.
Priorities move forward without fully accounting for capacity, dependencies, or risk. The organization commits, and execution absorbs the gap. Work expands beyond available capacity. Teams adjust to make it work.
Over time, that adjustment becomes the plan, and standards begin to slip.
Not because people do not care, but because the conditions were inadequate to support the work.
These patterns can be changed.
What This Requires of Leaders
Stewardship is established through leadership behavior.
Using the ALIGN method, leaders set the standard for how work is understood, how priorities are set, how execution happens, and how people are supported in delivering results.
They absorb input from stakeholders and ensure that current reality is part of the work.
They legitimize what is heard by factoring that reality into priorities, examining constraints, assessing risks, and using different perspectives to strengthen the direction.
They integrate those priorities into action by involving the people doing the work, grounding execution in what is actually required.
They grow the organization by aligning resources with ambition, building the capacity needed to deliver on commitments.
They nurture the business by sustaining the discipline required to deliver and build on results over time.
Over time, this creates an organization that is aligned with what it can actually deliver.
Strategy reflects reality and ambition.
Culture supports clear thinking, honest input, and shared responsibility for the work.
Execution becomes more consistent.
Commitments hold.
Stewardship as A Leadership Responsibility
Stewardship is the responsible and disciplined care of resources.
As a leader, your stewardship of the business, the people, and the resources sets the course for what the organization achieves.
Taking yourself seriously means recognizing that responsibility and acting on it with clarity and discipline.